8:30am A is watching Mickey Mouse on the couch when I come out. (Usually this happens in the PM, but whatever). I join in and tell her to say “selfie” as I document. I put C down for nap, and G takes A to school.
8:45am I sort through some baby clothes while C naps.
9:15am C is up! I prep his Synthroid and give it in a syringe of breastmilk. I take my vitamin and give C his vitamin D at the same time. I nurse C while reading a few blogs on feedly.
9:45am G watches C and I go for a run to take advantage of this:
Success! I listen to the Another Mother Runner podcast while I run (cheesy I know, but I like it). Running is getting gradually easier. I want to get faster mostly so I can crank through a 3-miler more efficiently.
10:30am I drink a lot of water, eat a snack (some cottage cheese and melon) and shower. C is napping on G.
11:10am C is up! He goes down very easily but is not into long naps. I feed him, schedule a car appointment for the next week, and half-watch Cupcake Wars with G while C plays on my lap.
12:00pm G goes to get A and takes her to the playground for a bit.
12:15pm C falls asleep. I write some emails and a blog post. I also have lunch (salad with turkey and avocado plus some Annie’s bunnies that I buy for A that are delicious) while C looks on with interest.
12:50pm C up. I feed him again and we play, including some mandatory tummy time.
1:35pm C is clearly sleepy, so I put him in the swing where he passes out. A comes home and it’s time for her nap, too. I read her stories and get her ready to nap.
2:05pm A is down. Finish writing blog post.
2:30pm C is hungry — I feed him while catching up on blogs again. G then offers to take C while I nap.
2:45pm I decide that this is a great idea. I rifle through the latest J.Crew catalog (want to shop, but need to waiiiiiiit), put away laundry, and fall asleep by 3.
4:30pm I hear C. I come down and feed C again while eating a bunch of roasted almonds.
4:45pm A is up, and SULKY. 2 year old teenager:
5:15pm I give A a bath. This is actually not the norm — usually it’s G or Josh, but she is in a clingy mood on this day and I’m okay with it.
TACO NIGHT. I plan our menus, but G shops weekly and cooks for us about 3x/week. On the other 2 weeknights we eat leftovers. She is an amazing (and efficient) cook and I am beyond thrilled with this arrangement.
6:45pm I clean up after dinner while attempting to keep everyone happy. I feed C. And then I get this miraculous text:
7:45pm Daddy/daughter reading time (usually it’s me and it’s not the same as it used to be, because I’m playing replace-the-paci with C the whole time)
8:10pm Josh puts A to sleep while I hold and feed C. C is very easy to please as long as you do those two things . . .
I put C to sleep at about 8:20.
8:30pm I hang out with Josh and eat a coconut milk ice cream bar (I love these). We look at some home furnishing catalogs because we need to replace our IKEA bed that keeps falling apart. We make no decisions, in part because I hate spending on home stuff.
9:15pm I go upstairs and read some of Wild on my phone.
So glad A likes watercolor!
YES! it was your suggestion – thank you!!
Curious if Josh’s long hours are typical for most vascular surgeons…what keeps him there so long at night (if not on call)?
i think that yes, many vascular surgeons have hours like this. at least at duke it seemed that way. he is usually either finishing a case (maybe something started at 4 pm and took 3-4 hours, plus then he has to finish rounding/documenting), doing a consult, or seeing follow ups after a clinic day – things like that. also documenting, although he often does not finish this before coming home and has to catch up on weekends.
Omg. I’m dying at the cuteness of C in the bumbo chair!! You should never feel guilty about having the nanny to help you out. You and Josh worked so hard for your amazing (and well paying) careers which make you able to afford things like G’s help. 🙂
A’s face in the mirror with Josh is awesome!! This makes me want to do a DITL post. 🙂 Loved reading about your day. And like others have said. . . do NOT feel guilty for having G’s help. We would totally hire some consistent daytime help if we could afford it!
Loved this. !!! Also, now I want tacos. And…if it’s appropriate/not too personal, I’d love to read more about what the transition to having a nanny has been like…i.e. how you deal with having another major caregiver for A and C when it comes to parenting challenges like discipline, etc, what it’s like having someone who is a "stranger" at first get to know you and your family on a personal level…if you see benefits to a nanny vs daycare, etc..just curious! 🙂
Is that Blueberries For Sal? It’s a favorite at our house! Painting works with my toddler when she is cranky too. Also Glitter glue, play doh, and basically anything that involves a mess. Also an indoor sand tray!
And holy cow I just noticed how LONG A’s nap was! My toddler has abandoned them completely and I’m missing the nap days.
YES. i cannot complain at all about her naps – they are usually 2 hours plus. (although she really fights actually STARTING them). she sleeps about 10.5 hrs at night and then 2 during the day most of the time – i know some kids do the 7p-7a thing and she never has so maybe that’s why she still needs a solid nap!
You are so busy! But in a good way. In the best way. I loved all of the family pictures. You look great! And you are so inspiring. I am trying to get back into exercising. I appreciate you being so motivated.
Your family is beautiful!
Your babies are so beautiful! I would TOTALLY have a nanny at home with me if it worked with our lifestyle…managing babies is a challenge and moms often feel like we are juggling so much, so anything you can do to reduce stress is well worth it. Happy moms = happy babies!
Thanks for sharing your day!
Hi!! Great DiTL post, I saw you linked to me earlier in another post, too. Another running, healthcare mama? Will be following along!
Also, if you have any interest in writing for my Moms Make it Work series, just email me! I’d love to hear from you considering you and your husband both work full time in demanding jobs.
mylifeintransitionblog at gmail dot com
Nice to ‘meet’ you!!
Such cute babies! The picture of A and daddy in the mirror is adorable.
Clicking over from the DITL link-up …
I can really relate to this post as I also have a 2 1/2 year old and a 5 month old baby (close-ish ages to your two) and my husband works and travels some long hours/days, too. It can be so hard managing it all. Glad you have some help to keep your sanity and great to see you enjoying the non-so-normal / easier days when they come! Bedtime with two little ones is definitely the worst – I can totally relate. Thanks for sharing your day!
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