– vacations that include flights/hotel stays — not all the time, but at least once yearly and maybe a weekend trip here and there
– date nights at restaurants (includes cost of restaurant + babysitter)
– the ability to order takeout at times
– Japanese straightening (CANNOT EVEN FATHOM)
– Whole Foods (I know, but yeah)
. . . I can’t imagine giving these things up. If I’m being honest with myself, it’s pretty clear: I don’t want to give them up.
On the other hand, I could live forever without a luxury car (I just need mine to be safe, reliable and fuel-efficient). I will happily live in a house filled with aging IKEA furniture, as long as it is clean and in working order and not cluttered. Many of the things I do with the kids on weekends are free (playgrounds, hanging out with relatives, etc) — though I also like the freedom to hit the zoo or museum if the mood is right.
I don’t know. I love the idea of stoicism that Trent writes about in this post. I read about aggressive retirement savings plans (ours is currently . . . not). But I have a hard time defining exactly what our goals are, or should be. This came up in part because I was thinking about the potential $$$ that would be associated with a Thursday night “off”. I’d also loooooove to eventually change our work schedules so that Josh and I take weekend call at the same time, with childcare. This would mean we’d have many more weekends OFF TOGETHER, which I feel are sorely lacking (which makes me wonder what the point of all this work is, anyway?). But of course again — it’s a cost. The reality is that we’d have to give something else up, or save less (not a good idea), or earn more (where’s my book deal?).