seriously, you all are the best.
your thoughts and comments were so uplifting, and so many good suggestions.
this weekend was . . . well, it had its ups and downs. one sobbing session [saturday] and one pretty good day [today!]. i still don’t really feel like myself but did have an enjoyable day today. despite what it may seem like, annabel is a total delight right now and just a warm, snuggly, sweet girl that seems to be absorbing the world like a sponge.
while running late this afternoon, i started brainstorming a list of things that have been bringing me down and possible plans of attack.
negative things: a list
feeling like i have no time [or energy] left for leisure/myself
fretting about studying for boards
missing friends from NC/ feeling alone
feeling like i’m not sure what to do with my time [when i’m w/ a] because i lack the social networks and structure that was built into living in a city surrounded by friends and activities that we were used to
feeling sluggish [and guilty] about rather poor eating habits this entire pregnancy
freaking out about howAMiGOINGtoDOthis with 2
need to plan ahead and schedule out weekends better so i have places to be
need to hire babysitter so that i can do some studying on weekends when josh is on call, and plan on spending extra time at work on weekends when i am on call just studying
going to bed earlier. and getting up EARLIER to reclaim some me-time in the mornings?! [or maybe just getting more sleep. maybe some days of each.]
calling or writing the friends/family that i miss. planning trips.
eating better [less processed $*&@# and white carbs, more protein/veg/real food] for the poor baby’s sake
talking to a professional about everything. [i think i am going to give it a little time first, but if things do not improve very soon then i am definitely going this route.]
try to seek out babysitter [family or otherwise] for one afternoon next weekend [josh is on call again] for targeted study time. i can even just hide upstairs with my textbooks
make other plans for next weekend so i’m not floundering around
try to be in bed by 9 every weeknight.
– – – – – and with that, i’m out! – – – – – –
will leave you with 3 pix [well, 2 pix and a screen shot]: