B = f(P, E)August 27, 2016
We are back in our house.
I am back to running.
For those reasons (and maybe more), I am feeling so peaceful and calm right now. Despite being at work with one of the longest inpatient rounding lists I have seen since moving down here.
I was at a lecture on physician well-being (of all things) and the speaker, a psychologist, displayed the following equation in big print on his powerpoint slide:
B = f(P, E)
B = behavior
P = person
E = environment
Behavior is a function of a person (and all of the complexities that come with that person!) and their environment. And man oh MAN, did the past week (with the Great A/C Failure) illustrate this for me. When everything was chaotic, I felt chaotic. And I probably acted chaotic. And it was just a horribly unpleasant time. Everything in my life felt difficult. I was so tired, and wasn’t sleeping well. I wasn’t exercising which just made me feel even worse. Everything felt like a crisis. I know I complained like crazy to my coworkers (which probably got annoying) and I actually had a breakdown (yep, crying!) about something that in retrospect seems like sooooo not a big deal.
And now — even though I have more work than I know what to do with, I just feel so much better. I rounded on many patients today and was able to do it without feeling panicky and out of control. I feel like I provided really good and thoughtful care today, which is a great feeling. I also feel like I cared for myself: slept well last night (only one work call), ran this AM before the kids were up, even took a few minutes to sit and use my meditation app before I hit the hospital for rounds. All of this because my environment went from one where I was completely out of control to one where everything runs (fairly) smoothly.
Off to go home and spend the rest of the day with A&C. Even though I will inevitably have calls to answer this oddly dose not throw me into a panic like it sometimes does. This is a working weekend, as are 20% of my weekends, and I’m just feeling at peace with it. And life in general.
Let’s hope it lasts!!
Working and brand new A/C!