Our weather seems to have shifted a tiiiiiiiny bit! It’s noticeably less humid and I daresay I might even describe it as pleasant, though when the sun beats down it still feels pretty hot.
Today’s low was actually in the 60s (67!!!!) — I don’t think I’ve seen a number that low in many months! So I’m just going to call it: SoFlo FALL HAS ARRIVED!!!

Truly, this is cause for rejoicing.
(I am probably conjuring up a late-season hurricane with all of this celebratory banter, but please no.)
In other news, I made the executive decision yesterday to turn November 2nd into my own personal retreat/planning day! I will be spending lots of time with many others helping them plan 2027 just a few days after that (yay!) but have not dedicated a significant chunk of my own time to seasonal/monthly planning in a good bit, so I am excited to now have that blocked on my calendar.
Basically this means:
- I will do something relaxing for myself to get in the mood (massage is booked!)
- I will make sure I’ve already pre-recorded the next week’s BLP so there aren’t any deadlines
- I will avoid scheduling any meetings / interviews / course sessions for that day
- I will spend some time just dreaming/scheming/brainstorming about ideas for next year on the business side
- I will complete my seasonal + monthly planning, since November is a month where I do both. (Monthly will go quicker having just completed seasonal, so this shouldn’t be too overwhelming.)
I think it would be great to do this every season (quintile) next year — cordon off the day for goal setting and also thinking more deeply about what I want to do with my business. It is cliche but very true that we can spend a ton of time working on things from a business standpoint, but far less time thinking about direction (plus, taking time to iterate/make things better). I spend a lot of time in worker bee mode, but I need to have a few “CEO” days built in too, you know?
(Note: I feel lucky that Nov 2nd was looking pretty empty at this juncture – next time I would probably want to block things off a bit farther in advance! But the stars did align.)
WORK CLEAN

I finished this book yesterday! I really liked all of the restaurant vignettes. The last section fell a little flat for me — the author was trying to put everything together in his own productivity system and as much as I LOOOOOVE a good productivity system, I found his hard to follow. It seemed like a GTD mashup with culinary terminology?
That said, I totally agreed with:
- the need for a Daily Planning Session (he calls it “Daily Meeze”, short for mise en place)
- the concept of interspersing “process work” with “immersive work” (similar to the idea of responsive work and input processing vs deep work)
- the importance of focus + avoiding rushing, because something done carelessly that needs to be redone ends up taking far more time
- . . . and balancing that with the real time boundaries around our tasks + work, which are often fairly extreme in a culinary setting
AND it did make me want to eat at a super fancy (ie Michelin-starred) restaurant, something I haven’t done in a while. Still hoping for Inn at Little Washington in the spring though!
ALLLRIGHHHHT onward and upward to the rest of this (very interview/on-stage heavy) day!

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Yes, let’s call it fall! 67 degrees and lower humidity feels AMAZING. Of course we’ll be totally heartbroken if it gets back up to 90 next week, but I don’t think that’s going to happen- I think our “summer” (or, “super summer”) is over. Phew- we made it!
Oooh… I need a personal retreat. I think there’s a day in November where my daughter has an all-day rehearsal (that luckily corresponds to a day off from work for me) and I could make that my retreat. I’m putting it in my calendar!
Happy SoFlo Fall! Absolutely yes to the personal retreat. This is something that everyone needs to do.
We are going to the Inn at little Washington tomorrow night for the 40th bday! I have only once been to such a highly acclaimed restaurant so I’m pretty excited!
AHHH please do report back! Are you staying at the hotel as well? I can’t decide whether it’s going to be worth it vs staying at the inn just down the street!
We only live an hour away so we won’t do overnight (we didn’t feel like doing the child care logistics), but I’ll report back!